The Painful Truth About Your Breakup

There is no quick fix to stop the pain caused by your fracture. No one can guarantee that you will get your ex back, because people have free will. You can’t determine what your ex does, and the more you try, the less attractive you become. Have you tried no contact for 30 days? And your ex didn’t come back, However? Now you’re stuck in limbo, waiting, worrying, and desperately longing tell your ex how you feel. You’re afraid you’ll never find someone better.

That’s the point where most of my clients come to me for help because they just don’t know what to do to get their ex to try again. They are not ready to let go. Many of them don’t even know why their ex left them in the first place. They are tired of just searching the internet and finding no real comfort or relief—until they find me. I am the one who will give it to you The painful truth is that this breakup is the best thing that could happen to you. Your pain can help you grow. This is your chance to look at your own problems and increase your self-esteem. My clients may achieve a happier relationship with your ex, or possibly with someone much better. But right now, you need to stop thinking about your ex and focus all your energy on you.

I really understand what you’re going through because I’ve been through it too many times myself. I’ve tried everything and I can tell you firsthand what works and what doesn’t. I’m not selling a cheap gimmick. I don’t believe in playing games or being manipulative. I’ll give you the painful truth you need to hear so you can feel much better in the end.

I have been perfecting my coaching method since the 90’s, when my heart was first ripped out by a man who chased me for years but ghost me when I fell head over heels in love with him. Ghosting wasn’t even a term back then and there was no internet to search for answers. I was so confused and completely weakened by the pain. I felt like a failure. Why didn’t he want me anymore? That was the most important question to find an answer to. But it really wasn’t about him. The painful truth was that I needed to focus on myself.

I discovered that knowledge was the only thing that made me feel better. Wanting to influence what my ex did made me feel helpless. Taking action to be a be a better version of myself made me feel hopeful. I started by learning about boundaries and how to enforce them. I looked at my pattern and realized I had chosen the wrong partners. I didn’t even realize that I had been in some pretty toxic relationships. For the first time in my life, I sought professional help. That turned out to be the best choice I could have made.

Naturally, when I started looking at my problems, my first desire was to show my ex how much I had changed. He called me after 7 months of no contact. I jumped at the chance to see him. I thought we were getting together again. But he just wanted to get a little impression of me. Recently, email became available, so I started bombarding him with all my emotions and new knowledge. I’ve definitely learned from my mistakes.

By 2001, I had gotten so good at dating that I was asked to be on a reality show about being single in New York. That led to co-hosting a talk show about sex and relationships, and by the end of that decade, I had attended NYU and was now coaching others on how to get over divorce. I had my book published and became the relationship expert for Good Morning America.

I really understand how hard it is to focus on anything other than your ex. Have you felt like you couldn’t focus on your work or be productive? Do you have difficulty sleeping and hardly eat? I have now gathered all the wisdom I have acquired over the past ten years, both personally and through the professional coaching of hundreds of clients. These are the three main benefits I offer you in my action plan for recovery after a fracture:

1. A proven action plan to become the best version of yourself.
2. Get out of limbo by setting realistic goals and using your time effectively to create the life you want.
3. Emotional support to accept the painful truth about your ex.

There are two possible outcomes for you: a win either way or a win to make you feel good about yourself.

Scenario 1: Imagine how you will feel if you get your ex back, but this time you will have a better relationship because you have grown and have the tools to communicate effectively and enforce healthy boundaries.

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Scenario 2: All your positive growth helps you recognize that your ex is no longer good enough for you. Imagine how powerful you’ll feel if your ex tries to get you back, but you’ve moved on and you really don’t care. You tell your ex you’re done, because like attracts like, and you’ll be more attracted to a healthier partner.

In my next video, I will guide you through the first step in dealing with life without your ex.

So I hope you liked this video. If you have any questions, please send me a message, I will be happy to help you. And like I said, stay tuned for my next video as I show you exactly how to deal with the painful truth about your ex and start feeling better.

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