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I don’t think I’ve ever done that was very good at dating. I am very careful about who I let into my heart and in the beginning it usually takes a lot of patience and resilience for a man to overcome the large, massive walls I have built as my fortress of safety. But every now and then someone comes through, and when he does, I open my world to him.
If you’ve been following my blogs, you know that I had a pretty bad breakup last year. One that left me hurt, betrayed, and extremely afraid to open my heart to anyone again. Getting hurt or disappointed in the search for love just wasn’t a risk I was willing to take.
Recently I met someone and taking the risk of opening my heart again was something I started to warm up to. He was an honest, honest, thoughtful and beautiful person. He treated me with respect, was emotionally mature, and his actions were consistent with his good intentions. But the timing in our lives didn’t match. And if there’s one lesson I’ve learned from my past, it’s that you can meet the right person at the wrong time, and it won’t work.
Usually, if a relationship doesn’t turn out according to the vision I had hoped for, I would feel disappointed and exhausted. I usually look back with regret because I think I wasted my energy. But what’s different is that this time I’m very grateful and happy for the experience. I can look back and say that I’m glad I opened my heart, and even though it didn’t turn out the way I expected, I feel healthy, grounded, and grateful to have shared moments with someone who handled my heart. heart with care and respect.
I believe that people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Sometimes that reason comes in the form of a hard, uncomfortable lesson. And sometimes that reason comes in the form of a light, positive reminder to remind you that there is goodness and hope. I’m quite thankful that the lessons learned came in the final form this time.
I always thought endings were bad. But I’m starting to realize that sometimes endings are just new beginnings in disguise.
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