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There are a few questions I get asked repeatedly when it comes to dating and timing. I thought it would be helpful to share some of these questions and answers.
When am I ready to start dating again (after a breakup/divorce)?
If you’re waiting for the moment when you wake up and suddenly feel 100% ready to date, the reality is that day won’t come.
You may still miss your ex, and part of you may still feel sad about what happened. That doesn’t mean your heart is closed to business. There is no perfect timeline in which the emotions of a relationship end in a neat and tidy finale.
Online dating is exhausting and I’m ready to give it up. If it’s so hard, isn’t this a sign to stop?
To answer this question, I want you to think about the trip you’ve been dreaming of. Let’s say it’s Bali. To reach Bali, you have to pack, go through customs and take a grueling overnight flight. Not to mention the 2 hours of traffic you will experience once you leave the airport. You take these steps because they take you to your destination. You don’t expect it to be fun. You just do it as part of the process.
The same mentality should be applied to dating. You go on dates, you go through the ups and downs, and you commit to the process because you’re doing it as a step toward your ultimate destination, which is your relationship goal (whatever that goal looks like, it’s personal and unique to you).
So don’t stop, because it’s difficult and uncomfortable. It should be so. But do learn how to get better at dating, because once you do, it will be a lot more fun and effective.
Dating is so hard at my age, in my city,
Dating is a skill. If you’ve never learned how to do it, it can feel like navigating an obstacle course.
But you can learn the tools, psychology, and proven methods that have helped thousands of others create healthy love.
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